Idols, whether material or spiritual, interfere with our properly loving and trusting the God who gives us all good things. We can identify an idol in our lives but still lack the power on our own to free ourselves from it. Addictions are notorious in this way. You can know, for instance, that excessive alcohol drinking is an idol in your life, but still lack the willpower to stop. You still need power beyond your own to free you from the idol of excessive drinking. This is often the case in alcohol abuse and in addictions generally.
We turn to our idols to bring us comfort or some other kind of satisfaction, but they fail us sooner or later. We need an unfailing source of lasting comfort and satisfaction to replace our failing idols. God is the only candidate for this unfailing source. God frees us from idols by replacing them with His unfailing friendship as our needed source of lasting comfort, satisfaction, and peace. God's friendship toward us is made possible by His freely offered gift of forgiveness and reconciliation toward us in His Son, Jesus. He even gives us His Holy Spirit to empower us to relate to Him faithfully. His forgiveness toward us enables us to be free of the guilt, shame, anger, and fear resulting from our wayward past and present. God proves His merciful, forgiving love toward us by means of the life and death of Jesus. As the apostle Paul observes, "God was, in Christ, reconciling the world to Himself, not counting people's sins against them" (2 Cor. 5:19). The forgiveness available through Jesus underwrites the friendship with God that can replace our idols, making them pointless and even repulsive. We are thus blessed with the Good News of Jesus.
Our properly receiving God's gift of friendship requires thanksgiving toward God. Indeed, our thankfulness for this gift, the gift that is the gift Giver, should exceed our thankfulness for anything else in our lives. A deficiency in our thankfulness here is a common obstacle to our receiving God's friendship. This deficiency is thus also an obstacle to our being set free from idols. In failing to receive God's friendship, we fail to be properly satisfied in our lives. Idols thereby gain a window of opportunity in virtue of offering a kind of apparent satisfaction. They attract us to value them in ways that cannot leave us adequately satisfied. They cannot replace the needed friendship with God. They are at best counterfeits that fail to deliver what we truly need. Given that God's friendship, in contrast, offers what we truly need (namely, lasting satisfaction, even if on terms foreign to us), we should respond with sincere gratitude. In fact, given the preeminence of God's gift, and given our desperate predicament apart from receiving His gift, our thanksgiving should give way to sincere, heartfelt praise and worship toward the living God. Freedom from idols is no casual matter. It is life made new, abundant, joyful, and everlasting.
Our idols are typically a quick fix that fail to satisfy lastingly. In contrast, friendship with the perfectly loving God is no quick fix. It is a relationship that must develop on God's unselfish terms. It brings about transformation deep within us, from selfishness to unselfish, self-giving love. Such transformation is often painful, owing to our white-knuckled refusal to let go of our idols. God's love is unconditional but, for our own good, it comes with specific expectations of us. In particular, we must renounce things (including our idols) incompatible with God's love, and do things (including what Jesus commands) integral to God's love.
We sometimes resist God's merciful love, given our selfish tendencies, including our resistance to God's expectations of us. For instance, the apostle Peter initially refused to allow Jesus to wash his feet (John 13:8). Peter wanted to instruct Jesus about how Jesus should conduct himself toward others (see also Mark 8:31-35). We are Peter. We fail to welcome the deep, merciful love offered by Jesus. In doing so, we languish with our idols, in prison. We will be set free only by the reconciling love of God as we enter in to grateful friendship with God and His Son, Jesus. Will we enter?
I carry dirt
One who cleans,
mercy He cleans
Today is alive
brings me life