You may consider taking these steps to try to increase personal safety.  If a sexual assault should occur, it is never the survivor's fault, whether or not any or all of these steps were taken.  The responsibility for a sexual assault lies only with the assailant. 

• Trust your instincts. If a situation feels unsafe, it probably is.
  
• Be assertive. Communicate your sexual limits clearly and directly.
  
• Understand that some behaviors may be misinterpreted as willingness to have sex.
  
  
  • Be prepared to clarify your behavior and communicate your limits.
  • Know that you always have the right to say no at any time for any reason.
• Be alert if your date/partner is controlling, threatening, angers easily, or humiliates you in public. These characteristics are often associated with relationship violence.
  
• Limit alcohol intake. Never leave a drink unattended or accept drinks from strangers. Educate yourself about date rape drugs.
  
• Avoid being alone with someone you don't know well or who makes you feel uncomfortable. Don't worry about hurting their feelings.
  
• Agree that you and your friends will watch out for each other.
  • Use a buddy system when you go out and agree that one of you will not drink.
  • Avoid leaving friends alone at parties, bars, or clubs.
• Be alert and aware of your surroundings.
  • Avoid secluded or unknown places.
  • Don't be afraid to call attention to yourself or your situation.
  • Know where the emergency phones are located on campus.
  • Contact Loyola Campus Safety for information on self-defense.